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Everybody heard rumours about women faking orgasms. Is
that true? The majority of women have faked at least one orgasm, yet some fake almost all of
them. Why do they do that? There are many reasons and the case is that there's no one to
blame.
The most common are two reasons: they don't want to
make their partners feel bad or they are tired and just want to end sex. Most females say
that their partners are not satisfied until the girls feels orgasm, there's only one way to
make them feel happy and stop the exhausting procedure - fake.
Another reason is that a typical female doesn't seek
for orgasm; she desires a sexual relationship only because she wants intimacy. Still, such an
attitude may make her partner feel bad. The only way out is to fake it out.
Some women never really experience orgasm while making
sex, but they want their partner to feel good about himself and her. Men usually expect women
to have pleasure, that's why females have no other choice. They have to fake to have a good
relationship.
Loss of interest, having sex only because the partner
wants to, also makes women to fake. Most females talk to their friends about such things and
while they know other women act it, they do so too, because it's an easier way to have a good
relationship.
When a man tries very hard, sometimes even too hard to
make his woman have an orgasm, the woman usually finds it better to fake it than to
disappoint her partner once again. They fear rejection if a man wouldn't understand her, they
don't want to offend men because the absence of an orgasm is actually not their
fault.
Some women may have health problems. If, while
experiencing she becomes too sensitive and wants to stop, she fakes an orgasm in order to
stop and relax. Orgasm may also cause discomfort and pain; that's a serious problem and she
can't be blamed for faking. In such cases, most women prefer and enjoy orgasm more during
solitary masturbation. Although they feel better while having orgasm themselves, they want to
make their partner feel good too, so they act an orgasm out.
A female orgasm can be most easily faked by a good
actress. There are few options: gripping something tightly; moaning loudly; breathing deeply;
burying face into something (pillow); doing kegels or anything else at least remotely
dramatic or climatic.
What to do if you think your partner is faking? Talk
about it. Maybe she knows some special position or action that would make her happy. Don't
get angry if she admits faking. Try to solve the problem, but don't get too far, don't try
too hard because it may become an exhausting activity rather than an act of
love.
Women act and men can do nothing about it; and maybe
they shouldn't? Try to find out the real reasons of faking and discus possible ways out.
Don't blame your partner for it; it's natural for women to do so from time to time. Show her
your passion, love and try to understand her.
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