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When you're pregnant, you can
already feel as if you're not as attractive as you once were. Although others may think you look gorgeous, you feel obtuse
and different.
You may feel as if you're not
as attractive to your husband as you were before you got pregnant, and to catch him watching
porn or to find out that he's watching porn can be very difficult to handle.
There are a few things you need
to consider before deciding what to do about the situation.
Is Your Husband Addicted to Porn?
One of the questions you may
have to ask yourself is this - is your husband addicted to porn or is it simply something he
watches every once in a while?
Many people hold the belief
that there is nothing wrong with using visual stimulation or simply watching
pornography. You have to decide how you feel about
it. If it upsets you, then it's
wrong. You need to have a conversation with your
husband and let him know how it makes you feel for him to watch pornography.
On the other hand, many men
have an addiction to pornography. Addiction to porn
is very similar to any other addiction. The addict
feels as if they must watch porn and they will do it very often, sometimes allowing it to get in
the way of their normal lives.
Some men have even been fired from work because they were
caught pulling porn up on the computer. This is not normal behavior and could be a sign that
your husband is addicted to porn. In this case,
confronting him may be require something other than a simple heart to heart.
Confronting Your Husband
If you think it's a normal
thing and that your husband is not addicted to porn, but you're still upset, you should sit down
with him and have a heart to heart talk about the situation. He may have no idea that it would upset you for him to watch
porn.
The only way he's going to find
out is if you tell him! So, be honest and without
being hostile or attacking him for watching porn, tell him how it makes you feel. Most husbands who care for their wives will understand and
will do what they can to make their wives feel more comfortable.
However, if you feel as if your
husband may be addicted to porn, there are a few things you can do. Research support groups for others who are addicted and find
out more about porn addiction. This may help you
confront your husband with some information that could help him kick his
addiction. You want to come at him very gently
as well, without hostility or anger.
If you come at him with an
attack automatically, he could close off and refuse to communicate which could lead to bigger
problems.
Using these tips and tricks,
you should be able to confront your husband in a way that lets him know about your concerns and
feelings without making him feel embarrassed or ashamed. Communication is key and this will help you remedy the
situation before it gets worse!
Is internet porn actually cheating?
In a healthy loving
relationship where you both have mutual respect and have agreed to be loyal to each other,
internet porn is not acceptable.
We class it as an intrusion on
your relationship, ridiculous, perverted, and to be honest, it is actually disloyal and a form o
cheating. I mean if your partner doesn’t even know your doing this, it is worse
still.
You need to consider your
partners feelings, if it makes them feel inadequate, ugly, hurt, or even inadequate, then you
need to get a grip and start focusing on your chosen relationship instead of wasting time
cheating online.
Internet porn cheating is all
too common, and if it goes too far, it can erode your relationship. Why punish your relationship
for the sake of a cheap thrill?
Engaging in cyber sex
activities or aggressively viewing internet porn can only lead to taking cheating to the next
level.
To be honest, pornography isn’t
real, it’s a fantasy, its makeup camera angles, silicone, lots of unnatural stuff, lighting,
hair extensions, mostly all false or unnatural methods. It’s also important to realize that
you’re watching somebody’s daughter, who has taken the wrong path in life.
She is humiliating her self,
degrading her self, shown no worth of self respect, setting no kind of example for the new
generations, and she is also being exploited by people who get there funds from you. It’s a sick
world, an evil one, it’s not healthy, it’s not normal, and it’s not natural.
You need to ask yourself when
you are pursuing an activity, would you do this if your partner was with you, standing right
next to you.
Are you looking outside of your
relationship to meet a need that isn’t there in the relationship?
Nothing can change if it is not
acknowledged or talked about.
What do you class as more
important, pornography, or your relationship?
Do you justify the activity by
saying its harmless everyone does it?
Don’t be a sheep, be your own
person and enjoy a long lasting health natural relationship. Or you can be a sucker to society
and it’s on going changing trends. Get with the times? How about get with the true meaning of
life. Love is what is important, it’s endless, worth fighting for, and if you have it, you’ll
always grow stronger each day.
So we suggest that you don’t
pursue cheating online, you don’t fall prey to internet porn cheating, instead, you follow your
heart, and you follow what is right for you and your partner deep down.
We wish you luck in your
relationship, so here is to a long lasting health natural relationship.
Do you think your spouse may be
cheating on you?
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