Reading Male Body
Language
How Fluent is Your Body language
It's amazing what you can reveal without saying a word. We show you how we can improve our love
lives, by giving out the right signs and understanding other people's signals.
When dating men, your body language really does play a very important role, because majority of
human communication is non-verbal. Your body language reveals a lot about you, and what exactly you
are communicating to men.
Dating and Mating, Body Talk
What attract us to a mate? Open any magazine or newspaper and you will see pages of "beautiful"
people. Almost without exception the women will be slim, even just after childbirth,
large-breasted, with an unlined, almost expressionless face.
It is in fact, through, that the most "beautiful" women are rarely lucky in love. Now look at women
who do find success in their relationships. They may be less than perfect on the Richter scale of
good looks, but they have an X factor - body language.
One of the greatest signallers of attraction is the face. Youthful beauty tends to be deadpan
because, in evolution terms. Breeding potentials is more important than personality. But as a woman
emerges from her teens it will be her facial expressions that resonate.
When we fall in love, nature creates a facial expression that I call the "look of love". Your eyes
soften and you acquire what can only be described as soppy smile.
You also use your face to signal tie-signs. These are all those small, subtle glances- nods,
eyebrow-raises and pursing of the lips that any close couple will use to communicate, they don't
need words; these tie-signs will speak volumes.
How to tell if he fancies you
*Eye-gaze is the first step. He'll catch your glance and hold it for a half-second longer than
normal. Then he'll look away. Then he'll look back.
* he should then change is state in some way, either succumbing to shyness signals like dipping his
head or blushing, or accelerating his pace of movement, sometimes getting jerky or clumsy.
*Nature will urge him to perform "chest-banging" rituals to show off his Alpha and sexual
credentials. The first change will be a slight puffing of is chest, then a splaying of the
legs.
* If he comes across to talk, you should begin to see signs of face-softening. His urge to smile
will intensify. Men usually attempt to suppress these smiles, so expect to see a struggle going on
with the mouth.
*He'll feel a deep desire to check your body out. A top-to-toe sweep is dead giveaway.
*According to male body language, when a man tucks his thumb in his belt, then it means that he is
fully interested in you and is in love.
*Suppose you are sitting or standing in a crowd and he is sitting somewhere close to you. Check out
his feet. If his feet are positioned at you, then he is interested in you.
*When a man gazes at your eyes, followed by chin, neck and other body parts, it signifies his
liking for you.
*When a man puts his hands on his hips, it signifies that he is confident and assertive.
Remember when reading male body language, look for a bunch of three or more signals, made close to
one another and targeted at the same person.
Finally, you've already known the signs that he is probably interested to
you by reading his body language. Once you know fairly sure that he likes you and you like him too,
then what are you waiting for? But how about if he seems does not interested in you?
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