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Learn how to have everyone wrapped around your little finger with these sneaky tactics....
Do you fancy getting your own way in life, love and work without having to scream, shout or act
like a demanding diva? All you need to do is use technique called "priming". Research shows that if
you specific words or body language, people will give you what you want- without even realising
what's going on.
Here’s how to do it.
At Work
How to bond with the boss
Offer to get your boss a cup of coffee - even if it's something you wouldn't normally do - then
chat to them while they drink it.
Why it works. A recent study showed that by holding the hot liquid, your boss will subconsciously
think that you're an emotionally person.
How to show you're ready for promotion
Wear a chic all-black outfit and don't smile as often as you usually would.
Why it works: Studies have found that people in black uniform are viewed as more assertive,
dominant figures. Keeping a neutral face is often associated with higher status in a work
environment.
How to show you're a good team player
Put a picture of a dog by
your desk.
Why it works: people will not only assume you're loyal, sensitive and trustworthy, but they may
also act more loyally towards you. But don't go overboard- too many personal pictures make you seem
less professional.
With a man
How to be more alluring when you meet him
Talk about a recent
holiday you were on, using as many sensual terms as you can. For example, say. "I love feeling the
hot sun against my skin," to paint a warm mental picture of you that he won't forget.
Why it works: According to psychologists, this seductive speech will make him associate your
personality with the lush sensations you're describing.
How to get the man you fancy to fall for you
Spend time gazing into his eyes, letting him bathe in your undivided attention. Then suddenly lean
back and employ a cut-off signal by looking away.
Why it works: This is like turning of the hot tap. It will confuse him and he'll have to intensify
his own interest signals to regain your attention.
How to have a big relationship chat without freaking him out
take him to a restaurant that has soft feminine decor, with round tables and curved-back
chairs.
Why it works: According to researchers, this kind of environment can influence a person to
communicate in a more feminine way, so he's likely to understand your point of view and discuss his
true feelings.
With friend and family
How to win over your boyfriend’s parent or friends
Casually praise someone who as key sports figure, political figure or celebrity.
Why it works: Talk about their hero in a positive light and your target will think about the
qualities they admire in that person....and subconsciously link you with those positive traits.
How to make friend out of an Acquaintance
Every now and then, mirror his or her behavioural habits - like touching your hair when they touch
theirs.
Why it works: We like to see ourselves in others. If you move or stand in a similar but unobtrusive
way, then the person feels closer to you without realising why.
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