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If you're in a relationship with a guy and you delay having sex, will it help strengthen your
relationship? Will it actually hurt your chance of the relationship getting serious, or will it
help it?
How long, exactly, should you make him wait? Sex is an
important part of any relationship, there is no denying it. However, sex also brings a lot of
other complications into a relationship as well.
If you want to have a serious relationship with someone
but are unsure as to when you should sleep with him, continue reading to find out if delaying
having sex with a man will help strengthen your relationship.
Recently, it has become widely accepted at a cultural
level to have sexual relations with a man to whom you are not committed to. More and more
women are embracing their sexuality and even becoming empowered by it. Even having more than
one sexual partner is not as taboo as it used to be.
However, because it is more acceptable does not
necessarily mean that you should do it, especially if it is a serious relationship that you
are searching for. If you are simply looking for physical satisfaction and are seeking casual
partners, then sleeping with a man fairly soon in a relationship is fine. If you are looking
for something more permanent, however, then it makes sense to practice some constraint and to
delay having sex with him until the time is right.
So why should you wait until the time is
right?
Well, for one thing, at the beginning of the
relationship it's sometimes difficult to know what a man's motives are. Some men are simply
out looking for a good time, while others are looking for a more serious commitment but don't
know how to communicate that. Until you know what his intentions are, you should probably
hold out when it comes to sex.
Delaying sex with a new man in your life will also give
you the chance to get to know the man better on an emotional level, which is a really great
foundation for a serious relationship. If you jump right into the sheets with him, it's
difficult to build a lasting relationship on that.
Sex can be fun and everyone has physical needs.
However, you should remember that you are worth waiting for and that you don't have to rush
into anything that you are not ready for. If you delay having sex with a man, it can give you
both a chance to get to know one another more which can eventually lead to a promising,
fulfilling relationship.
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part
of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and
writes dating/relationship articles for women who
want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more
about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting
their website.
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