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When I first met my boyfriend, I was
amazed he was still single. He's good looking and well of. Our first. Our first few times in bed
were so-so, but then one night he spanked me really hard, and we had wild sex. Now he wants to
spank me every time we made love. Should I be wary?
This guy sounds fixated on bottom-bashing.
And he's not alone - spanking is very popular among English men. People used to say it was all
to do with corporal punishment in school, but this hasn't been allowed for years, so I don’t
know why it still turns on so many blokes.
I say “English, by the way, as spanking
doesn't seems to thrill the French, Italian and German nearly so much!
Your boy friend must have been delighted
when you enjoyed being spanked that first time. There are lots of nerve endings in the bottom
that can give great pleasure, and it can feel exciting and different. But having to do it every
time could become a bore.
You may love cheesecake, but do you want
it every day? You could try rationing the spanking to once a fortnight. But how do you turn him
on to other sexual activities in between? You could try sex toys, play-acting, dressing up, or
just lots of love play.
If none of this satisfied him, especially
when the relationship is no longer new and exciting, you’ll have to choose. Stay with the
perfect gent and put up with a sore bottom. Or leave. Therapy might help him change, but many
spankers don’t even want to stop. What they want is a woman who’ll go along with it. Is that
you?
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