Pre-Nuptial Agreements   I have just inherited a fair chunk of money from a relative. I also earn much more than my fiancé.   I love him, but my faith in marriage isn’t high, given all the divorces in my family.   I don’t want to upset my fiancé but I feel a pre-nup may be wise. Do you agree?     More and more people are opting for pre-nuptial agreements, not just the rich and famous. But beware; it’s not a fail-safe option.     Think it through: Before you go down this road, think about what you may stand to lose as well as gain. Some weddings have been called off because of the hostilities which have broken out over the pre-nup!     Know a pre-nup’s limitations: Marriage is about sharing what you own when you’ve split. However, the issue of child custody and support cannot be included, and if you have children, this will affect any previous agreements. Also, the courts would only recognise the pre-nup as binding if it is also fair.     Don’t delay the paperwork: To be worth the paper it’s written on, a pre-nup must be drawn up, with a layer, at least four weeks before the marriage. But it is best to do it as far in a advance as possible. As the wedding get closer, your head will be too full of confetti!         He Wants To Spank Me    When I first met my boyfriend, I was amazed he was still single. He's good looking and well of. Our first. Our first few times in bed were so-so, but then one night he spanked me really hard, and we had wild sex. Now he wants to spank me every time we made love. Should I be wary?      This guy sounds fixated on bottom-bashing. And he's not alone - spanking is very popular among English men. People used to say it was all to do with corporal punishment in school, but this hasn’t been allowed for years, so I don’t know why it still turns on so many blokes. I say “English, by the way, as spanking doesn’t seems to thrill the French, Italian and German nearly so much!     Your boy friend must have been delighted when you enjoyed being spanked that first time. There are lots of nerve endings in the bottom that can give great pleasure, and it can feel exciting and different.   But having to do it every time could become a bore. You may love cheesecake, but do you want it every day?   You could try rationing the spanking to once a fortnight. But how do you turn him on to other sexual activities in between? You could try sex toys, play-acting, dressing up, or just lots of love play.      If none of this satisfied him, especially when the relationship is no longer new and exciting, you’ll have to choose. Stay with the perfect gent and put up with a sore bottom. Or leave.   Therapy might help him change, but many spankers don’t even want to stop. What they want is a woman who’ll go along with it. Is that you?

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