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We have already looked at what
the female orgasm is in other articles, here we are going to look at how you and your partner
can achieve satisfying orgasms and enhance your relationship.
The conditions must be correct
for your partner to achieve orgasm, both partners
must be relaxed and in a comfortable setting and feel totally at ease.
The feeling of anxiety must not
be present, as well as the moods of both partners must be happy and without care.
This psychological aspect is
somehow as important as the physical ones.
Relax and set the mood with
foreplay
To achieve orgasm, as much
foreplay as possible must be performed. In most cases, and where the woman wishes it,
cunnilingus is very effective.
In fact, if cunnilingus is
properly performed the woman will reach an initial orgasm.
It should take on the average
about 20 minutes. See the net-planet article on cunnilingus for the correct and effective
procedures. Do not stop however, as the larger and more important orgasm is yet to
come.
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Positions for great female orgasm
There are three positions that
almost insure a long and pleasurable female orgasm. Do not attempt any of the three without
adequate foreplay (or the cunnilingus as above).
The first position has many
names, but as mentioned in the Perfumed Garden (a classic Arabic text from the golden age of
Arabic Literature), it is called Dok-al-Arz, or “pounding on the spot”.
This position assures 3
important factors in copulation. The first is depth of the penis. The second is the “g-spot
angle” and the third is maximum clitoral stimulation.
To achieve this position the
man sits on the edge of the bed, and the woman sits on the man, inserting his penis deeply into
her vagina. She then wraps her legs around him, as well as her arms. The couple is free to kiss
if desired.
Then the woman begins a slow
grinding movement (no thrusting is possible). She is able to stimulate simultaneously her
clitoris and g-spot. The orgasm comes quickly and with great intensity.
Should the man be able to
ejaculate into her womb as she is finishing, the result is only intensified. The woman will love
the man greatly if performed well.
The second position also has a
great many names, but is commonly knows as The Gates of Heaven.
To perform this The woman lies
on her back. The man lies or kneels in alignment with the vagina.
The man will hold (or press
with his shoulder) the woman's leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman's pelvis.
This position, as believed by some, achieves a faster and more intense type of female
orgasm.
This can be accomplished
through lifting the women's leg(s) higher upwards; the deeper the man's penis can fully go
in.
Again, there is both clitoral
and g-spot stimulation. Again, there is very little or no thrusting, but a slow and steady
grinding movement. If the woman and man can grind in rhythm, the effect is only
heightened.
The third position is a
variation of the second, and is called Crab on its Back. This position, like the previous two
assures maximum clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This position allows for some
thrusting.
The woman lies on her back with
a cushion beneath her buttocks, and the man kneels or lies on top of her while pressing her
thighs hard against her chest. The vagina will be tighter and the cervix will be pushed forward,
so the penis presses against the cervix when thrusting, with a corresponding intensity of
sensation. The result is often a very quick and immediate orgasm (or series of orgasms) of the
woman.
Achieving satisfaction
The practicing of these three
positions will give you and your partner a lot of pleasure and if done correctly can help her
achieve wonderful orgasms to enhance and fulfill your relationship with each
other.
Spread-Eagle
(best sexual positions)
If she raises her bottom off
the bed slightly, perhaps with the aid of a pillow under her hips, then it will be possible to
achieve deeper penetration. The man can also lie with his full weight on his partner, from which
position it is easy to roll into 'spoons
There are two main ways to
engage in Spread Eagle sex position, the receiver can either have their legs apart with their
partner entering from behind coming between the legs
A slight variation of this
position is when they have the their legs closed with their partner's legs on the outside
penetrating from behind, this is sometimes called 'the peace sign position
Leapfrog Position (best sexual
positions)
The penetrating partner
penetrates from behind in a kneeling position. This, as with most positions in which the
penetrating partner enters the receiving partner from behind, allows the penetrating partner to
ensure that the receiving one reaches a satisfactory orgasm by manually stimulating her
clitoris.
This position also allows the
penetrating partner to control his thrust speed more easily, providing the desired speed and
stimulation for the receiving partner.
Penetration can be very deep.
The receiving partner also has the option of rotating her hips against the penis as she is
penetrated giving added sensation to both partners.
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